Card index of conversations on moral education card index (senior group) on the topic
Card file of conversations on moral education
Topic #1: Why do they say “hello”?
Goal: To form in children the basic rules of etiquette when meeting. Introduce greeting methods. To consolidate ideas about the importance and necessity of using “kind words” in colloquial speech, to arouse the desire to use them.
Topic No. 2: “My good deeds”
Goal: to deepen children’s understanding of kindness as a valuable, integral quality of a person. Improve communication skills (the ability to listen to a friend, sincerely express one’s opinion, show kindness to the opinions of other children), skills of cultural communication with peers. Achieve friendly intonation expressiveness of speech. To cultivate in children friendly relationships, feelings of self-esteem and respect for others, the ability and desire to come to the aid of adults and peers.
Topic #3: “What is kindness?”
Goal: To form children’s idea of kindness as an important human quality. Encourage the desire to do good deeds; strengthen children’s ideas about good deeds, understand that polite words help people communicate. Form moral ideas about kindness. Cultivate kind feelings towards people around you.
Topic No. 4: “Hurry to do good”
Goal: Continue familiarization with the polar concepts of “good” and “evil.” Form a conscious attitude towards social norms of behavior, consolidate the skills of friendly behavior in everyday life. Introduce ways to resolve conflict associated with feelings of anger, as well as ways to manage and regulate mood. Continue to cultivate friendly relationships between children.
Topic No. 5: “If you are kind...”
Goal: To develop in children the need for friendly communication with others, to consciously show empathy and perform kind deeds. To teach to understand the meaning of proverbs about goodness, the ability to associate the meaning of a proverb with a specific situation. Teach children to show kindness and responsiveness to everyone who needs it.
Topic No. 6: “Polite words”
Goal: To teach children the rules of etiquette, forms and techniques of communication when meeting with acquaintances and strangers, the rules of using greetings. Help overcome shyness and stiffness in children. Develop the ability to express your opinion in a cultural way, listen carefully to your interlocutors. Teach formulas for expressing polite requests and gratitude.
Topic No. 7: “Accidentally and on purpose”
Goal: to develop moral feelings - regret, sympathy; develop gaming communication skills without hurting your partner’s interests.
Topic No. 8: “Learning to forgive our friends”
Goal: to develop children’s ability not to be offended by each other; develop the ability to distinguish between an accidental mistake and an intentional one and react accordingly; lead children to understand the words “peace-loving”, “touchy”.
Topic No. 9: “Why do there be fights?”
Goal: to develop communication skills in children; develop an understanding of the meaning of norms and rules of behavior among peers; cultivate the habit of behaving with dignity in every situation.
Topic No. 10: “Dreamers and liars”
Goal: to develop the ability to distinguish between deception and fiction, fantasy; develop a desire for truthfulness and tact.
Topic No. 11: “Let’s make peace”
Goal: develop the ability to restrain negative impulses, avoid conflicts, find words to evaluate behavior. Teach children to be responsive and sensitive.
Topic No. 12: “A good friend is a friend in need”
Goal: to form the idea that a true friend knows how to empathize and help in difficult times; develop the ability to be merciful to each other.
Topic No. 13: “How to behave during a conversation”
Goal: to introduce children to the rules of behavior during a conversation.
(Speak in a polite tone. Use “magic” words. Look at the interlocutor’s face. Do not keep your hands in your pockets. You should not eat during a conversation. If two adults are talking, the child should not interfere in their conversation, much less demand that it stop) .
Topic No. 14: “Good - Evil”
Goal: To teach to give a moral assessment to the actions of heroes, to cultivate a desire to be kind and humane. To help you understand that a kind person can be called a person who always helps others and does not remain indifferent in situations that are difficult for other people.
Teach to distinguish good deeds, create a desire to do good deeds towards people around you.
Topic No. 15: “Truthfulness”
Goal: To form ideas about the moral concept of “truthfulness”, to teach how to give a moral assessment of the hero’s actions, to help understand that a lie does not decorate a person.
Topic No. 16: “What a friend should be”
Goal: To form ideas about positive character traits and moral actions, to deepen ideas about friendship. Cultivate respect, patience and friendliness towards your comrades, teach them to correct their mistakes, and ask for forgiveness in conflict situations. Teach children to be responsive and sensitive.
Topic No. 17: “Be neat and tidy”
Goal: To teach children to take care of their appearance. Help you understand that a well-mannered person always looks neat.
Topic No. 18: “Truth is not true”
Goal: To explain to children that they should not deceive others, that they should always tell the truth, that truthfulness and honesty always please adults, that these qualities are highly valued in a person, that they are praised for telling the truth. Help children understand that any lie is always revealed, and the person who lies feels guilty not only for his own offense, but also for the fact that he told a lie.
Topic No. 19: “Goodwill”
Goal: to continue to instill in children a negative attitude towards rudeness. Explain to children that the one who teases not only offends others, but also causes harm to himself (no one wants to be friends with such a person).
Topic No. 20: “Games without quarrels”
Goal: Explain to children that a quarrel interferes with play and friendship. Learn how to resolve controversial issues, avoid quarrels, don’t get angry when you lose, don’t tease the loser...
Topic No. 21: “Politeness”
Goal: To teach children to use polite words, develop appropriate skills of cultural behavior, observe the rules of etiquette, using the example of images of literary heroes, stimulate positive forms of behavior and inhibit negative ones. That you need to communicate with others calmly, without shouting, that you should express your requests in a polite tone.
Topic No. 22: “Thrift”
Goal: To teach children to treat things with care and precision, otherwise they will quickly lose their appearance and become unusable. Teach to appreciate the work of those who made this thing, who bought it, earning money.
Topic No. 23: “Mutual assistance”
Goal: Explain to children that all people sometimes need support, but not everyone can ask for help; It is very important to notice the person who needs help and help him. That you need to help not only acquaintances, but also strangers.
Topic No. 24: “The desire to help”
Goal: To develop emotional responsiveness, the desire to help, showing empathy. Teach children to be responsive and sensitive.
Topic No. 25: “Generosity and Greed”
Goal: To reveal the meaning of the concepts of “greed” and “generosity”. Develop the ability to evaluate your attitude towards positive and negative actions. Understand that being greedy is bad, but generous is good.
Topic No. 26: “Why you need to be able to give in”
Goal: to teach children to avoid quarrels, give in and negotiate with each other. Develop the ability to evaluate your attitude towards positive and negative actions.
Topic No. 27: “Steps of kindness”
Goal: based on the content of Russian folk tales, to form in children an idea of justice, courage, modesty and kindness, to cultivate a negative attitude towards negative qualities: lies, cunning, cowardice, cruelty. Learn to convey your attitude to the content of the fairy tale and the actions of the characters.
Topic No. 28: “It’s better to be kind”
Purpose: To give children an idea of an indifferent, indifferent person and his actions. Teach children to distinguish between the external manifestations of an emotional state (anger, indifference, joy). Learn to analyze actions, find the cause of the conflict, ways to resolve conflict situations and promote their assimilation in behavior. Generalize the idea of kindness and evoke the desire to do good deeds.
Topic No. 29: “How to dress in cool weather?”
Goal: To generalize and consolidate the skills of correct, consistent dressing and changing clothes. Develop attention and observation. Foster independence, the ability to determine what to wear according to the weather.
Topic No. 30: “We are traveling in transport”
Goal: To familiarize children with the rules of behavior in transport: give way, be polite, do not push, etc. Develop attentiveness and observation. Cultivate a friendly attitude towards people traveling in transport.
The importance of moral education for society
The moral situation of many families and society as a whole leaves much to be desired. The characteristic reasons for this situation include the lack of constant cultural and leisure work, the healthy physical training of young people is being replaced by the pseudoscience of safe sex, there is no patriotic education at school, and state policy is likely to destroy the valuable pedagogical experience accumulated over decades.
The processes are intensified by a powerful stream of propaganda of violence, debauchery, and alcohol, with the complete absence of government and law enforcement agencies of effective methods to change the situation.
In the modern education system, extremely little attention is paid to spiritual and moral development. The salvation for the country should be the restoration of scientific, artistic, traditional religious culture. Harmony and beauty, built on Orthodox Christian principles, are the main lever in overcoming the crisis in education, culture, and the inner world of a person.
The main criteria for judging the moral education of children can be:
- pride in one's homeland;
- the ability to be useful and serve oneself;
- desire for good relationships, love of reading, work;
- the ability to choose friends and not let loved ones down;
- a critical attitude towards one's shortcomings;
- the desire to preserve social values and native nature;
- assistance to loved ones, comrades, disabled people;
- creative attitude to study and independent work, participation in social events.
The role of the school and the teacher’s personality in spiritual and moral education
Today's children are very different from schoolchildren who were even 10 years ago. They are more knowledgeable, self-confident, more often inclined to overestimate their awareness, neglect authorities and other people's opinions, they are characterized by superficial feelings and reluctance to think. Very often, nationality and citizenship mean little for primary school students; the importance of school life and education also lose importance. Literary heroes, famous compatriots, and teachers cease to be moral models.
Thoughts about a future profession have little to do with selfless service to others, life orientations are mercantile, children’s consciousness is directed towards personal interests, singers, football players, bankers, and action movie heroes become their idols.
Properly organized school life actively counters the examples of immoral and destructive behavior that capture children's consciousness through computer games and television shows.
Within the walls of the school, a cultural space is modeled where traditional moral principles are an absolute priority. But the values of high culture are perceived by the child only through his own activities.
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A lesson is not something individual, but a place of collective experiences and actions, where children accumulate moral experience, they learn to work independently, listen, compare, defend opinions, and help others.
For younger schoolchildren, the teacher is in many ways a role model in manners and attitude towards children. If warmth and responsiveness reign in the class, and the teacher cares about his students, then the relationships between classmates become the same. Elders, as in the family, should pay attention not only to children’s success in reading and mathematics, but also to their spiritual and moral development; upbringing and the learning process in primary school are inextricably linked .
Moral education of the individual
Activities for spiritual and moral education in elementary school
It is better to divide the activities into subgroups:
Cognition
This includes various intellectual games and work on filling out rating tables. Children need conversations aimed at stimulating interest in learning on the following topics: “What is not written in the textbook,” “Outstanding women scientists,” “About people of science.”
The main thing is not to put pressure on children, but to develop in them an interest in learning and a desire to develop.
Value guidelines
Boring classroom hours and dry conversations will not be able to provide proper patriotic education and will not teach the basics of etiquette. Virtual travel and online games are much more interesting and educational.
It is useful for children to hear true stories about patriotic deeds from veterans. The rules of etiquette are reinforced under the control of the class teacher during lunch, extracurricular activities with access to the city or nature.
Necessity of labor
Awareness of the importance of work is instilled in children during short shifts, general cleaning of the classroom, and school grounds. Additional help will include classes on the topic of vocation, choosing a future profession, visiting a local factory, organizing a school fair.
Public benefit
This group of conversations and activities aims to help every student realize that he should be useful to someone in real life. This could be patronage of younger schoolchildren, a rabbit, a kitten. With their class teacher, children visit shelters, orphanages, and hospitals.
Entertaining children, telling them a fairy tale, helping a sick person with lunch - these activities not only cultivate compassion, but become a decisive factor in choosing a future profession.
Creative activities
Trips to their native land, places of battle, themed evenings on the theme of the arrival of autumn, Maslenitsa, fashion shows, meetings with poets and composers develop students’ interest in creative pursuits.
Future creators will gain self-confidence from the genuine interest of others in their creations. It is important for a child to express admiration; excessive criticism or ignorance destroys the desire to draw or perform in a drama club.
Health promotion
Regular sports competitions and classes on the rules of maintaining health are a useful endeavor. To make it interesting for children to take part in games, trips to health camps, and hikes, props and posters are carefully prepared for them, and comparative diagnostics of health indicators “before” and “after” are carried out.
The free time of younger schoolchildren can be devoted to classes in thematic clubs and sports sections. For unobtrusive control, teachers can use a survey or discussion method. Only here it is important that such a “conversation” does not turn into a teacher’s monologue or a conversation exclusively among children.
